What To Do If Your Wife Is Not Sexually Active! Part 1

Wale has been married for 9 years, and he has 2 lovely kids with his wife. When Wale approach his wife in bed, she always replies with “I’m tired and weak, let’s do it tomorrow”. Instead of making love with Wale, the wife prefers sleeping over sex. When the next day comes, and Wale reminds her, she comes up with yet another excuse. And on occasions when she gives in, Wale spends up to 20 minutes trying to get her aroused, yet she doesn’t seem to be overly excited.
Wale wondered, “What could be wrong with my wife, I’m going crazy and need to have my sex life back before I commit adultery”.
If the story above resonates with you, then it could be that your wife has become sexually inactive.
Intimacy in relationship or marriage is the number one reason why sex is a strong bond of union. When a couple have a strong sexual desire for each other, then they will enjoy a higher level of emotional and spiritual fulfillment.
However, when you discover that your wife have started having a general dislike or loss of interest in sex, this could be due to some reasons. But this can cause a lot of frustration and friction in the family, especially when the man wants sex more than the woman do.
Sometimes talking to a woman about this problem may not solve this problem as she may be receptive the first time and relapse into that habit again after the effect of that conversation has worn out.

On the other hand, it would be foolish for a man to trouble, force or beg his wife or partner for sex as this would only make the situation worse.
To find the solution to make a woman sexually active again, you need to identify the root cause of this problem and attack it from there.
Are Your Expectations Realistic?
We all have different appetites for sex, and so does the woman. It would be unrealistic to expect a woman to want sex EVERY TIME you want it as a man. However, a common ground should be reached where the man has to settle for a frequency that is often but favors the woman.
For instance, a man may want to have sex 4 – 5 times in a week, whereas the woman may want it 2 – 3 times in a week. In these two cases, sexual activity is okay for an active sex life. It will be better if the man gives a consideration and allows it for the time that suits the woman, that way everybody goes to bed happy.
Sure, there are ways a man can increase this frequency naturally without physically discussing it with the woman, but that is a topic that the Female Orgasm Secrets discusses in dept.
What about a case where the woman doesn’t seem to enjoy sex anymore? This is where the crux of the matter is as this is a serious problem and must be closely looked into.
Below are the possible reasons why a woman may have a low sex drive which usually leads to sexual inactivity.
1. Fatigue
Modern life can make our activities so hectic that when the woman comes home, she is already exhausted and too tired to do any serious sexual activity.
2. Prescription Medication
Some people who are under prescribed drugs for illnesses such as High Blood pressure may suffer a post symptom of low sex drive induced by the antidepressants present in these drugs.
3. Use of Alcohol and Drugs
Do you know that the excessive use of alcohol and drugs can affect sex drive in women?
4. Psychological Reasons
Excessive stress and poor body image of a woman can limit her response to sex when she is approached for that. The same can be said of a woman who in the past has suffered sexual abuse.
5. Hormonal Changes
There are periods in the woman’s life that she is more emotionally down. Instances like when she is in her cycle, during menopause, during pregnancy and breastfeeding can all affect her sex drive.
6. Sexual Organ Problems
Is your woman the type that has pain while having sex or during orgasm? These are medical conditions that can limit a woman’s chances of having a satisfying sex.
7. Medical Issues
Some women who are diagnosed as having arthritis, diabetes, cancer or even High Blood Pressure suffer from low sex drives as these conditions are treated.
8. Relationship Problems
As a man have you taken a realistic look at the way you treat your woman? Do you have any pending or unresolved problems such as quarrels, history of infidelity etc? This could contribute to her low sex drive.
You should find a solution to all the mentioned problems above in other to help your woman become sexually active again. Especially, you should find ways to rekindle those passions you once had which allowed you two to have hot passionate sex when you were starting out.
In my next article, which forms the second part of this series, I will be completing it with the tips you need to apply to bring back the passion you once enjoyed.
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