10 New Surprising Facts About Love and Sex

hitched, it’s normal to be curious about everyone else’s love lives. Are you having enough sex? Is your communication off? Are you being too picky? Luckily, Match.com released the latest findings from the third annual Singles In America study, and the results are fascinating! They surveyed over 5,000 singles and 1,000 married people on everything from orgasms to dating deal breakers. Check it out to see how your love life stacks up:

Women Snoop…A Lot
If you already know your date’s education and work history before you get to the restaurant, you’re not alone. 48% of single women look someone up on Facebook before a first date. Hey, you have to make sure you’re not getting Catfish-ed, right?
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Sex Doesn’t End After Marriage
Worried about your sex life plummeting after you tie the knot? Don’t worry, 41% of married couples had sex at least once a week last year. And better yet: Married women think about sex even more often than single women.
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Money Troubles Ruin Your Mojo
A bad credit score can screw up more than just your financial future—it can mess with your love life. 65% of singles wouldn’t date someone who was over $5,000 in debt. Hopefully, that’s not something you’d reveal on a first date, anyway.
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Singles Are Better Communicators
Communication is clutch for good sex, but singles may have the upper hand on this one. Married men and women are less likely to bring up intimacy concerns than their single counterparts.
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Most People Want to Get Married
Even though singlehood seems to be getting longer and longer, most people still believe in getting hitched someday. In fact, 9 out of 10 singles are optimistic about marriage. Consider the myth of bitter singles officially debunked!
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Hookups Are Hot Right Now
Having a no-strings-attached hookup isn’t so scandalous anymore:  47% of singles have been involved in a friends-with-benefits relationship. And only 37% of single women wait until they’re in an exclusive relationship before sleeping with a new partner.
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Your FWB May be BF Material
Just because casual sex is on the rise, that doesn’t mean serious bonds are going extinct. 44% of singles have had a friends-with-benefits fling turn into a long-term relationship. When he fits the bill and you have great chemistry, go for it.
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Orgasms Aren’t Everything
Even though single women climax less often than single men, they may be enjoying it more. 49% of single women say they’re satisfied with their sex lives, compared to just 44% of single men.
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He Actually Wants to Meet the Parents
Taking a new guy to meet your mom and dad isn’t necessarily a deal breaker. 48% of men want to meet a woman’s parents before they become exclusive. He might just want to make sure you don’t have a shotgun-wielding, overprotective dad, but it still sounds sweet.
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Your Sexts Are Never Really Safe
Think you can send off a risqué photo to your guy that’s for his eyes only? Unfortunately, 23% of singles who received a sext have shared it with others. So maybe rethink that naughty photo shoot until you’re totally exclusive.

 

Foods That Enhances Your Libido

A lot of Nigerian men are having problems with lasting longer. It is also true that some have been able to hold themselves for long with the natural products that are on sale on this blog.
However, there are times that even after you have mastered the art of lasting longer, your ability to last longer starts to deteriorate. Some of the reasons for this may be from loss of essential nutrients in the body that helps libido.
According to a medical record, it says that when the brain is deficient with some chemicals, your sex drive is highly affected, however, if you increase the intake of some of these nutrients, you will improve your sex drive and be able to balance the brain chemistry.
Here are the various deficiencies that can affect your sex drive and how to deal or cure then naturally.
1. Lack of Libido
When you have low libido, you may be lacking the brain chemical called Dopamine. To get more supply of Dopamine, you need to eat lean proteins that can be found in foods like eggs, beans, fish, diary products, etc.
2. Arousal Problems
If you are having problem with arousal or lubrication, you may lack the brain chemical called Acetylcholine. To get adequate supply of this chemical from foods, you need to eat legumes, eggs, and whole grains.
3. Orgasm Problems
If you’re unable to achieve orgasm, it could be that your brain chemical Amino-butyric acid may be unbalanced. To fix this problem eat foods rich in fibers, like whole grain foods like brown rice, cereals, oats, millet, etc
Other Sex Boosting Foods Are
Nuts
Examples are Cashew, Peanuts (Groundnuts), Almonds, Walnuts. In fact, these food group are responsible for the essential fatty acids that helps keep the brain alert. Almonds particularly is known to arouse passion in women, whereas other nuts are known to boost testosterone, male fertility sex cell.
Apples
According to a doctor, apples contain a chemical that gives one a natural feeling of excitement and well-being, and this helps in stimulating the mind for sex activities.
Avocado
This fine fruit contains Vitamin B6 which helps to increase testosterone and potassium levels, and this also regulates the thyroids which boosts libido.
Fish
Fish are known to contain Omega 3 fatty acids which allows the free flow of blood because of prevention of plaques along the walls of the arteries.
Other Aphrodisaic foods are:

• Garlic
• Sweet potatoes
• Pumpkin Leaves
• Lobsters
• Shrimps
• Crustaceans
• Oyster
• A little wine
• Chicken Breasts
• Olive oil
• Bananas
• Grapes
• etc

If you have used the information in the Last Longer Guide here, and you are still have problems with your libido, it could be that your body needs an extra supply of the natural chemicals present in the foods above.
Just start eating them for the next 2 months or more and you will see significant changes. However, if after trying these and you see no result, it could be a serious health problem. At this point, I will ask that you see your doctor for recommendation of a possible solution.
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12 Ways To Keep Your Marital Relationship Fresh!

Here's the true story of how I went from lasting less than ONE minute in bed... to literally being able to have sex for as long as I wanted to last... "On This Page, You Will Discover How I Took Myself From Being Able To Last Only 15 Seconds In Bed... To Having Full Control Over My Orgasms And Being Able To Last Over 30 Minutes In Bed CONSISTENTLY...!"   Now, My Wife Begs Me For Sex EVERY TIME, Because Of The Intensely Pleasurable Sex I Give Her Each Love Making Session!

What To Do If Your Wife Is Not Sexually Active! Part 1

Wale has been married for 9 years, and he has 2 lovely kids with his wife. When Wale approach his wife in bed, she always replies with “I’m tired and weak, let’s do it tomorrow”. Instead of making love with Wale, the wife prefers sleeping over sex. When the next day comes, and Wale reminds her, she comes up with yet another excuse. And on occasions when she gives in, Wale spends up to 20 minutes trying to get her aroused, yet she doesn’t seem to be overly excited.
Wale wondered, “What could be wrong with my wife, I’m going crazy and need to have my sex life back before I commit adultery”.
If the story above resonates with you, then it could be that your wife has become sexually inactive.
Intimacy in relationship or marriage is the number one reason why sex is a strong bond of union. When a couple have a strong sexual desire for each other, then they will enjoy a higher level of emotional and spiritual fulfillment.
However, when you discover that your wife have started having a general dislike or loss of interest in sex, this could be due to some reasons. But this can cause a lot of frustration and friction in the family, especially when the man wants sex more than the woman do.
Sometimes talking to a woman about this problem may not solve this problem as she may be receptive the first time and relapse into that habit again after the effect of that conversation has worn out.