10 New Surprising Facts About Love and Sex

hitched, it’s normal to be curious about everyone else’s love lives. Are you having enough sex? Is your communication off? Are you being too picky? Luckily, Match.com released the latest findings from the third annual Singles In America study, and the results are fascinating! They surveyed over 5,000 singles and 1,000 married people on everything from orgasms to dating deal breakers. Check it out to see how your love life stacks up:

Women Snoop…A Lot
If you already know your date’s education and work history before you get to the restaurant, you’re not alone. 48% of single women look someone up on Facebook before a first date. Hey, you have to make sure you’re not getting Catfish-ed, right?
RELATED: Manage Your Online Reputation
Sex Doesn’t End After Marriage
Worried about your sex life plummeting after you tie the knot? Don’t worry, 41% of married couples had sex at least once a week last year. And better yet: Married women think about sex even more often than single women.
RELATED: Boring Sex, Begone!
Money Troubles Ruin Your Mojo
A bad credit score can screw up more than just your financial future—it can mess with your love life. 65% of singles wouldn’t date someone who was over $5,000 in debt. Hopefully, that’s not something you’d reveal on a first date, anyway.
RELATED: How to Avoid Credit Card Debt
Singles Are Better Communicators
Communication is clutch for good sex, but singles may have the upper hand on this one. Married men and women are less likely to bring up intimacy concerns than their single counterparts.
RELATED: Navigating Orgasm Obstacles

Most People Want to Get Married
Even though singlehood seems to be getting longer and longer, most people still believe in getting hitched someday. In fact, 9 out of 10 singles are optimistic about marriage. Consider the myth of bitter singles officially debunked!
RELATED: Make Your Marriage Stick
Hookups Are Hot Right Now
Having a no-strings-attached hookup isn’t so scandalous anymore:  47% of singles have been involved in a friends-with-benefits relationship. And only 37% of single women wait until they’re in an exclusive relationship before sleeping with a new partner.
RELATED: Why Isn’t Random Hooking Up Scary Anymore?
Your FWB May be BF Material
Just because casual sex is on the rise, that doesn’t mean serious bonds are going extinct. 44% of singles have had a friends-with-benefits fling turn into a long-term relationship. When he fits the bill and you have great chemistry, go for it.
RELATED: Couples vs. Friends with Benefits: Who Has More Sex?
Orgasms Aren’t Everything
Even though single women climax less often than single men, they may be enjoying it more. 49% of single women say they’re satisfied with their sex lives, compared to just 44% of single men.
RELATED: Have Better Orgasms
He Actually Wants to Meet the Parents
Taking a new guy to meet your mom and dad isn’t necessarily a deal breaker. 48% of men want to meet a woman’s parents before they become exclusive. He might just want to make sure you don’t have a shotgun-wielding, overprotective dad, but it still sounds sweet.
RELATED: How to Survive Your In-Laws
Your Sexts Are Never Really Safe
Think you can send off a risqué photo to your guy that’s for his eyes only? Unfortunately, 23% of singles who received a sext have shared it with others. So maybe rethink that naughty photo shoot until you’re totally exclusive.

 

Foods That Enhances Your Libido

A lot of Nigerian men are having problems with lasting longer. It is also true that some have been able to hold themselves for long with the natural products that are on sale on this blog.
However, there are times that even after you have mastered the art of lasting longer, your ability to last longer starts to deteriorate. Some of the reasons for this may be from loss of essential nutrients in the body that helps libido.
According to a medical record, it says that when the brain is deficient with some chemicals, your sex drive is highly affected, however, if you increase the intake of some of these nutrients, you will improve your sex drive and be able to balance the brain chemistry.
Here are the various deficiencies that can affect your sex drive and how to deal or cure then naturally.
1. Lack of Libido
When you have low libido, you may be lacking the brain chemical called Dopamine. To get more supply of Dopamine, you need to eat lean proteins that can be found in foods like eggs, beans, fish, diary products, etc.
2. Arousal Problems
If you are having problem with arousal or lubrication, you may lack the brain chemical called Acetylcholine. To get adequate supply of this chemical from foods, you need to eat legumes, eggs, and whole grains.
3. Orgasm Problems
If you’re unable to achieve orgasm, it could be that your brain chemical Amino-butyric acid may be unbalanced. To fix this problem eat foods rich in fibers, like whole grain foods like brown rice, cereals, oats, millet, etc
Other Sex Boosting Foods Are
Nuts
Examples are Cashew, Peanuts (Groundnuts), Almonds, Walnuts. In fact, these food group are responsible for the essential fatty acids that helps keep the brain alert. Almonds particularly is known to arouse passion in women, whereas other nuts are known to boost testosterone, male fertility sex cell.
Apples
According to a doctor, apples contain a chemical that gives one a natural feeling of excitement and well-being, and this helps in stimulating the mind for sex activities.
Avocado
This fine fruit contains Vitamin B6 which helps to increase testosterone and potassium levels, and this also regulates the thyroids which boosts libido.
Fish
Fish are known to contain Omega 3 fatty acids which allows the free flow of blood because of prevention of plaques along the walls of the arteries.
Other Aphrodisaic foods are:

• Garlic
• Sweet potatoes
• Pumpkin Leaves
• Lobsters
• Shrimps
• Crustaceans
• Oyster
• A little wine
• Chicken Breasts
• Olive oil
• Bananas
• Grapes
• etc

If you have used the information in the Last Longer Guide here, and you are still have problems with your libido, it could be that your body needs an extra supply of the natural chemicals present in the foods above.
Just start eating them for the next 2 months or more and you will see significant changes. However, if after trying these and you see no result, it could be a serious health problem. At this point, I will ask that you see your doctor for recommendation of a possible solution.
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12 Ways To Keep Your Marital Relationship Fresh!

Here's the true story of how I went from lasting less than ONE minute in bed... to literally being able to have sex for as long as I wanted to last... "On This Page, You Will Discover How I Took Myself From Being Able To Last Only 15 Seconds In Bed... To Having Full Control Over My Orgasms And Being Able To Last Over 30 Minutes In Bed CONSISTENTLY...!"   Now, My Wife Begs Me For Sex EVERY TIME, Because Of The Intensely Pleasurable Sex I Give Her Each Love Making Session!

What To Do If Your Wife Is Not Sexually Active! Part 1

Wale has been married for 9 years, and he has 2 lovely kids with his wife. When Wale approach his wife in bed, she always replies with “I’m tired and weak, let’s do it tomorrow”. Instead of making love with Wale, the wife prefers sleeping over sex. When the next day comes, and Wale reminds her, she comes up with yet another excuse. And on occasions when she gives in, Wale spends up to 20 minutes trying to get her aroused, yet she doesn’t seem to be overly excited.
Wale wondered, “What could be wrong with my wife, I’m going crazy and need to have my sex life back before I commit adultery”.
If the story above resonates with you, then it could be that your wife has become sexually inactive.
Intimacy in relationship or marriage is the number one reason why sex is a strong bond of union. When a couple have a strong sexual desire for each other, then they will enjoy a higher level of emotional and spiritual fulfillment.
However, when you discover that your wife have started having a general dislike or loss of interest in sex, this could be due to some reasons. But this can cause a lot of frustration and friction in the family, especially when the man wants sex more than the woman do.
Sometimes talking to a woman about this problem may not solve this problem as she may be receptive the first time and relapse into that habit again after the effect of that conversation has worn out.

President Jonathan Drops The Ball - ACN Press Release

The Action Congress of Nigeria (ACN) said that while President Goodluck Jonathan's surprise visit to the Police College in Ikeja last week to see the decrepit state of the training institution is commendable, the President again dropped the ball by his comments during the visit.

In a statement issued in Lagos on Monday by its National Publicity Secretary, Alhaji Lai Mohammed, the party said, instead of using the occasion to tell Nigerians what his administration will do to uplift the training institution and many of its likes across the country, the President chose to berate imaginary enemies who are bent on embarrassing his administration, and also questioned how Channels managed to film the rot in the college.

There is a huge difference between the guys who get girls on a consistent basis and the one’s who just can’t seem to get attention from the opposite s*x no matter how hard they try. If your love life is on the skids, it’s safe to assume that you are probably guilty of one of these 5 blunders.

1. You’re too needy

I Caught My Boyfriend With His Ex, On Our Bed"

My partner sits opposite me declaring how much he loves me and all the while he’s sending dirty texts to his ex. 


He even lent her the car I bought him.
I’m 45 and met him 18 months ago on a dating site. I’d been single for seven years and he made me feel beautiful and worth so much. My daughters, 21 and 22, hated him though. They said he was a creep but I was madly in love. They’ve cut all ties with me over him.
I sold my home and bought somewhere smaller and a car for us each. He never had any money and said he was owed a year’s salary in back pay, which he’d give me when it came through. It never did, though, and I ended up with huge debts.

I knew he went on the webcam for random sex, which he paid for with my money, but then I discovered that he’s still seeing his ex. He’s been giving her money to live a life of luxury when he knows I am struggling with debt – because of him. When he told me the car I’d bought him was in the mechanic, she was actually driving it around.

I caught him out sneaking off for sex with her when we haven’t made love for a year. I confronted her and she told me they’d had sex in my bed when I was out. He said it was lies but she knew exactly what design my duvet is, what make-up I use and what was in the fridge.
I pretended to go away for a night and sneaked back late in the evening. Sure enough I caught them together in my bed. He’s destroyed my confidence. He’s pleading with me now to give him another chance and to trust him, but am I just wasting my time?

 

Ask Naij: Can One Have Sex 2 Weeks After an Abortion?

I had unprotected sex with a girl, 3 weeks after she claimed to miss her period (she claimed she was on ovulation the time we had sex) and demanded some money for abortion and the money was paid to her account.

The next day she claimed the abortion has been done, a week after, she claimed that she has seen her period.
Please my question is this: 1) Is it possible to see your monthly period a week after abortion?

2) Could she be telling the truth or she was out to get money from me (which am not bothered about) because am still trying to get my head around this.

Please advice me first on what you think about my story, please it's a real story. I tried to be nice to her and was telling her that I don't believe her story, but she insisted it happened, but I still sense lies in her.
One day I accused her in a lie that she was never pregnant, I told her she lied to get money from me and her reaction showed I may be right... I stopped calling her and she kept calling me (I sense guilty mind) and to my surprise she asked that she wants to visit me again so we have sex again.
Please, who does abortion and have sex with same person barely two weeks after the abortion?

Top 10 Signs Of A Desperate Man

in the dating world, a desperate man is one who is over-eager, anxious, presumptuous and willing to be with any woman to avoid being alone.
Women can spot desperation in a man from miles away, and if you suffer from it, you’ll never stand a chance at getting any girl.
A man who is desperate may have a strong want and desire to have a relationship; however, due to having little experience in the romance and dating department, his behaviors can indicate low-self esteem and a host of other issues that turn women off and can actually be viewed as creepy and disturbing.
Here are 10 warning signs that can help you determine if you fit under the portrait of a desperate man:
1. Dropping your standards
Desperate men are prepared to drop their dating standards to fill the huge emotional void in their life. Whether they want children or intimacy the desperate man will date who they have too to avoid being alone. They will be with any woman just for the sake of being

10 Tips To Make A Woman Fall In Love With You!

After you meet a woman and start dating her, you get to know her better. You probably start feeling closer to her and may even find yourself falling in love. But her feelings may still remain a mystery to you. You’re not even sure whether you’re doing things right. How can you get her to fall in love with you? Here are 10 ways how to woo your woman, and at the end of it, she’s sure to be crazy about you.

1. Display maturity. It’s always said that women mature faster than guys and are often found complaining about how immature they act. Impress her with the way you deal with situations and your outlook on the whole. Show her how responsible you are about finances, or serious you are about your career. And demonstrate your ability to think clearly and rationally when disagreements crop up or a conflict of interests presents itself.

• TIP: Women love it when a guy takes interest in their likes, dislikes, interests, family, childhood and so many other areas. Talking to her about herself is the best way to make her fall in love.

"Obasanjo Gave Birth To Boko Haram By Allowing Sharia Law"

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Condemning the recent critic comment made by former President Olusegun Obasanjo on President Goodluck Jonathan’s approach on Boko Haram, a security consultant has blamed the former president for the development of the fundamentalist group.
Mr Max Gbanite, a strategic security consultant, claimed that allowing the implementation of Sharia Law in some parts of the north during the Obasanjo regime led to the development of Islamic sect that are now staging insurgency against the Nigerian government.
The security expert made the allegation on the Channels TV breakfast show, 'Sunrise Daily', where he alleged that "He [Obasanjo] allowed Sharia to take effect because of an alleged unholy alliance between the then Governor of Zamfara state, because they did not want the then National Security Adviser [NSA] to have a role in government, therefore he called a political Sharia."
The political Sharia, he claimed, moved to Borno state, which is now the home ground of the Islamic sect.

Mr Gbanite blamed the emergence of Boko Haram on what the administration of Chief Obasanjo failed to do, saying, "Boko Haram is a new phenomenon that wouldn’t have degenerated to the level we have it if Obasanjo in his eight years in power did what was fundamentally right in promotion of democracy."

Noting he is not President Jonathan’s 'fighting dog or attack crocodile', Mr Gbanite decried the former President’s mannerism of going on an international media to lampoon the current Head of State.
According to him, President Obasanjo’s statement of stick and carrot approach on Boko Haram indicates that President Jonathan is failing in addressing the nation’s security challenges and this is not right for a former president.
He likened President Obasanjo attitude to former military head of State, General Muhammadu Buhari, saying that "the simplicity of the elder statesmen is rascality."
He enjoined them to take a cue from other elder state men, who are as well bothered about the challenges bedeviling the nation but will resort to talking to the President in person.
Mr Gbanite, however called on President Jonathan to invoke the amnesty deal for the Boko Haram insurgents as a way to quickly and peacefully quell the unrelenting insurgency.

"Obasanjo Gave Birth To Boko Haram By Allowing Sharia Law"

10 January, 2013
Politics

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Condemning the recent critic comment made by former President Olusegun Obasanjo on President Goodluck Jonathan’s approach on Boko Haram, a security consultant has blamed the former president for the development of the fundamentalist group.
Mr Max Gbanite, a strategic security consultant, claimed that allowing the implementation of Sharia Law in some parts of the north during the Obasanjo regime led to the development of Islamic sect that are now staging insurgency against the Nigerian government.
The security expert made the allegation on the Channels TV breakfast show, 'Sunrise Daily', where he alleged that "He [Obasanjo] allowed Sharia to take effect because of an alleged unholy alliance between the then Governor of Zamfara state, because they did not want the then National Security Adviser [NSA] to have a role in government, therefore he called a political Sharia."
The political Sharia, he claimed, moved to Borno state, which is now the home ground of the Islamic sect.

Mr Gbanite blamed the emergence of Boko Haram on what the administration of Chief Obasanjo failed to do, saying, "Boko Haram is a new phenomenon that wouldn’t have degenerated to the level we have it if Obasanjo in his eight years in power did what was fundamentally right in promotion of democracy."

Noting he is not President Jonathan’s 'fighting dog or attack crocodile', Mr Gbanite decried the former President’s mannerism of going on an international media to lampoon the current Head of State.
According to him, President Obasanjo’s statement of stick and carrot approach on Boko Haram indicates that President Jonathan is failing in addressing the nation’s security challenges and this is not right for a former president.
He likened President Obasanjo attitude to former military head of State, General Muhammadu Buhari, saying that "the simplicity of the elder statesmen is rascality."
He enjoined them to take a cue from other elder state men, who are as well bothered about the challenges bedeviling the nation but will resort to talking to the President in person.
Mr Gbanite, however called on President Jonathan to invoke the amnesty deal for the Boko Haram insurgents as a way to quickly and peacefully quell the unrelenting insurgency.

President Jonathan May Spend 7 Years In Prison After Tenure

Respected for the accuracy of his predictions, Prophet Marcus Tibetan who is widely referred to as the Nostradamus of our time predicts that ten Ministers in the cabinet of President Goodluck Jonathan would be dropped this year for being ineffective and incompetent.
President Goodluck Jonathan, says the prophet, should pray against losing loved ones in this year 2013.
These are some of the predictions of Prophet Marcus Tibetan, the Parish Head of Celestial Church of Christ, Elisha Parish, for the year 2013.
The President should pray very hard against a situation that would arise and make him spend at least seven years in jail after his tenure as President of Nigeria.
‘Four members of the House of Representatives will die this year and there will be two major air disasters in the months of May and June 2013!’
He further predicts that the Senate President, David Mark, should begin to wind up and prepare for his exit from politics as disgrace is imminent.
The Vice President, Namadi Sambo, should forget any ambition of being the Vice President of Nigeria again after this first term. Bamanga Tukur may be the last PDP Chairman as the party would suffer a lot of crises and setbacks in 2013.
Former President Olusegun Obasanjo needs to do more for the Yoruba race in particular and Nigeria in general. He should perform the assignment of putting the Yoruba race in the forefront with zeal as this could be his last assignment.
Prophet Marcus Tibetan’s earth shaking predictions for the year 2013 are presently being compiled into a book which will be in circulation within the first quarter of the year. The Prophet who is loved and respected in his native town of Ode-Aye has visited more than eighty countries.
His mastery of the Bible can be seen in his in exhaustive quotations from the Holy book.
The man of God is able to cure chronic diseases and ailments such as sickle cell anaemia and diabetes, amongst others.

OGBENI RAUF AREGBESOLA IS THE MAN

Osun Declared the Second Best Managed State in Nigeria By Federal Bureau of Statistics (FBS)... Beats Lagos and Abuja...

Eventually, Federal Bureau of Statistics (FBS) has released its result of poverty rating of the states of the federation, and the seat of the caliphate, Sokoto and Katsina states are on top of the poorest states in Nigeria. Take Sunday Punch newspaper of January 6, 2013 for mor...Continue Reading — with Abdulwaliyu Raji and 6 others.

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